With the pandemic, virtual sex has become an increasingly common practice. And if sex is a transgression, leaving the comfort zone feeds our erotic universe and the desire for the other. If you haven’t ventured out yet, how about trying to live that experience? iG Delas spoke with sexologist Chris Marcello to list tips for beginners who want to make this adventure unforgettable. Check it out below!
#1 Warming
up Throughout the day, invest in spicy messages, in provocations to heat up the game.
#2 Set the mood
If you’re a person who likes half-light, put candles in the room, some soft music. Seek out resources that sharpen your senses.
#3 Lights, camera, action!
Start the conversation by telling us about a fantasy you’d like to fulfill. It is stimulating to listen to (and understand) the erotic repertoire of the other. Be very descriptive. The more spicy details, the better!
If you prefer, choose an erotic story to read together. Each of you reads a part of the story, and you can act out the story you are reading.
#4 Improvise a sensual dance
This helps to create the connection and make you horny. Take off your clothes very slowly, one at a time, so that you have a chance to “taste” this moment.
#5 Sit on the bed, so that the other person can see you in your entirety
Apply an oil all over your body. The idea is to really provoke! The genitals are the last place to touch. Look for accessories and products to enhance the sensations: vibrators, dildos, lubricants. You can even invest in toys that can be controlled from a distance.
#6 Masturbate together
Watching each other’s pleasure is incredibly exciting. Show the other person the way you like to be touched so they can learn from you.
#7 During virtual sex…
Throughout the experience, make sure that the other is feeling safe and comfortable so that the experience is truly pleasurable and an “extra step” in the couple’s intimacy.
“Two things are very important for this moment: to be comfortable with the proposal (always consent) and to investigate cybersecurity measures to be taken, to feel protected. And then, if it’s the will and curiosity of both of you, schedule a time and get to work!”, concludes the sexologist.
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