Natalia and Bruno Iura have been married for 17 years, but it was no Valentine’s Day In 2017, Natalia decided to surprise her husband with an unusual gift: the chance to have sex with another woman. Although they had already discussed the liberal universe, it was on June 12 that they entered a house of swing for the first time, marking the beginning of a new phase in their lives.
At the time, the couple had just moved from the countryside of São Paulo to Osasco and were exploring the world of swinging. “We read a lot about it, talked to friends and researched some houses. We were really curious. On Valentine’s Day, we chose a swinger house in São Paulo that had a special program for the date,” says Natalia.
The first contact didn’t go as expected and they didn’t have sex with anyone. “We were surprised by the place. It was top-notch, with chocolates, drinks and themed décor. People were approaching, but we weren’t ready yet,” Natalia recalls.
Despite this, the couple did not give up. Gradually, they began to loosen up, attend parties and relate to other couples, always maintaining the rule of living these experiences together. “Until one day, I felt a huge desire to just watch Bruno having sex with another woman. I didn’t need to participate, I just wanted him to have this gift,” Natalia reveals.
On Valentine’s Day 2018, Natalia decided that the perfect gift would be for Bruno to fuck another woman while she watched. “I realized that our relationship has a huge complicity, a lot of love and respect. There is no such obligation that if one is having sex, the other needs to too. Our agreement is that we can’t go out alone with other people, but within the same party, each one can have relationships with whoever they like. We are very free in this matter,” he explains.
Thus, a tradition was born. Year after year, the couple celebrates special dates in swingers’ houses or motels, always including one or two people. “We have our little party for two, which is our intimate moment, and the one in naughtiness. This year, Bruno is organizing everything. It’s been a while since he’s been talking to a couple and we’re going to a party together,” says Natalia.
The couple makes use of apps, such as Ysos, which serves as a tool for the couple to meet new people, whether single or other couples. The platform is aimed at those who adopt a liberal lifestyle, prefer open or non-monogamous relationships, breaking with the traditional model of relationships. There are others of the genre, such as Sexlog also aimed at liberal couples.
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